Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Naive

Recently I was told by someone (respectable no less) that I am somewhat naïve.
Naïve.
Me.
Trust me that is a tough one to swallow. And for a couple of days admittedly I beat myself up about it. Quite severely to be honest..

There was a bit of self loathing involved.. visions of myself never having grown up, not being worldly wise, being gullible, susceptible and dare I say it .. a downright fool.

However … and here’s the good bit…

After some serious contemplation I have decided that I do not in fact mind being naïve. Not at all.

In fact I celebrate my naiveté.

You see when faced with the alternative I just wouldn’t want to be anything else.

I have always believed the best of people. Every person.
I have always believed that people can change. Change from what the world and circumstances have made them to what they are destined to be... Deep , soulful people filled with the capacity to love and be loved.

My deepest conviction is that everyone needs to be loved.
Not the modern notions of love – you know the romantic airy fairy variety that fades like the morning mist in the face of adversity..?.. roses, moonlight, champagne, chemistry…
No.
I believe in the lasting true kind.

The kind that loves you so much you can’t help but love yourself..
The kind that sees old people still holding hands after so many years…
The kind that wipes away your tears when life has slapped u so hard your cheeks are stinging..
The kind that believes in you and makes you laugh at yourself.
The kind that accepts you regardless. .. loves you regardless.
The kind that never loses patience…
Always shows respect
The kind of love that is happy to say nothing and do nothing, Just be.
An unselfish love that puts its own needs behind the needs of others
The kind that chooses – yes elects- to love even when the feelings aren’t always there.
The kind of love that breeds commitment and intimacy and trust between two people.
The kind of love that sees it through to the end…
I believe faced with true love every human being can replace a hard heart with a compassionate receptive one.
I believe I should love first, and not in response , and that this pure kind of love can change people.
I believe in forgiveness. I believe in keeping no record of wrongs – downside ?– yes - I tend to forget the bad things and leave myself susceptible to situations and people I maybe shouldn’t
I believe in true love.
I believe in real men.
Men possessing virtue and honor.
Men of solid character.
Men who display chivalry, bravery and accountability
Strong Men.
Men who cherish.
Men who protect.
I believe in sincere and loyal friendships.
I believe in having a compassionate heart. In seeing the best in everyone and every situation
I believe that all things work together for good..
I believe that behind the knots and joins of life is a rich tapestry being woven for His honor and glory
Yes, I believe life is difficult. But I believe with God’s grace we can face all difficulties.
I believe that bad things shouldn’t happen to good people. Even though they do.
Despite the odds I still believe in happy endings…
I am an incurable romantic
I believe in honesty and respect.
I believe in putting myself out there, taking risks, loving deeply and truly.
I am not hard. I am not cynical. I am not dishonest.
I am therefore...
Dare i say it..
NAÏVE

Saturday, January 9, 2010

A Man After Gods own Heart

Ironically David - who falied and sinned so many times- is the only one man in the bible referred to as "A Man After Gods own Heart"...
I find it such a comfort that a man with such a poor performance record in so many ways ( ladies man, murderer of Bathsheba's husband , polygamist etc etc ) could still be loved and adored by God enough to call him this.
This study again proves that God looks at our hearts, our emotions and intentions and judges us on this, not on our outward performance and religious track record.
Gods love is unconditional and despite our frailties and humanity

An encouragement for all us sinners out there...

Enjoy

A Man After Gods own heart:

I want to be a man after God's own heart, but how? How does a person do that? Do you have to constantly read your Bible and pray without ceasing? If so, then I will never attain the mark. I am just too busy with work and family to be able to read my Bible constantly and pray without ceasing. I would like to say I can, but I know I can't. But is that what God means by a man after His own heart?

Who did He call a man after His own heart? Let's look and see.

(1 Samuel 13:13-14 NIV) [13] "You acted foolishly," Samuel said. "You have not kept the command the LORD your God gave you; if you had, he would have established your kingdom over Israel for all time. [14] But now your kingdom will not endure; the LORD has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him leader of his people, because you have not kept the LORD'S command."

Of course we know that Samuel was speaking about David. So David was a man after God's own heart. Did David sit around reading the Scriptures all day? Did he sit around meditating and praying all day?

Well the Bible tells us quite a lot about David. He was a shepherd, he was a mighty warrior, he was a musician and to his downfall he was a ladies man. That is not to say that he did not read the Scriptures and mediate on God's word or that he did not pray, but he was not locked in a room doing only those things. So we come back to the question: what made David a man after God's own heart?

Was he holy and sinless? The Bible tells us that no one other than Jesus Christ was ever able to live a sinless life. In fact the Bible gives many details of David's life and quickly dispels the idea that he was holy enough to be a man after God's own heart.

We know a few things. He had many wives. We know that he was not always the best disciplinarian of his kids. Take the story of Tamar for example. David knew that she had been raped by her half-brother, but he did nothing. This incident snowballed and almost cost David his life and his kingdom, because Tamar's natural brother wanted to avenge her. We know that David committed adultery with Bathsheba and then to cover it up ordered her husband's murder.

No this was not a man who never sinned or never made a mistake. Yet God still called Him a man after His own heart. So what could be the reason?

Did David always trust God no matter what the situation? Let's look:

(1 Samuel 21:12-13 NIV) [12] David took these words to heart and was very much afraid of Achish king of Gath. [13] So he pretended to be insane in their presence; and while he was in their hands he acted like a madman, making marks on the doors of the gate and letting saliva run down his beard.

So although he had faith in God and trusted Him, he was much like us; there were times when he lacked faith.

If David was not a man after God's own heart because he was constantly in prayer and mediation, and not because he lived such a holy life, and not because of his unshakable faith, what was it?

I think there were several reasons David was a man after God's own heart. Some of them are plainly stated in Scripture and some are implied. Let's look at one of the implied reasons first.

After David committed adultery with Bathsheba and had her husband killed to cover up the sin, God sent Nathan to him to confront him with his sin. We see the real heart of David in this incident. Many people when confronted with their own sin want to kill the messenger or deny responsibility, or blame others. But look at how David reacted:

(2 Samuel 12:13 NIV) Then David said to Nathan, "I have sinned against the LORD." Nathan replied, "The LORD has taken away your sin. You are not going to die."

David could have said, "Well Bathsheba should not have been bathing out in the open." Or he could have blamed the servants who went to get her for him. There are thousands of things David could have pointed to, but he didn't. He confessed his sin with a contrite heart.

It is very popular today to blame our sinful ways on the past. It is the fault of our past hardships, or our parents, or our employer, or the lies we were told by Satan when we were very young. You name it people have used it to shift the blame from their own actions to others. The only thing this does is deny our responsibility before a Holy God.

Now for the plainly stated explanation from Scripture for the reason David was a man after God's own heart:

(Acts 13:22 NIV) After removing Saul, he made David their king. He testified concerning him: 'I have found David son of Jesse a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.'

He will do everything I want him to do. Wow, how simple is that and yet how hard is that for us to emulate? David was willing to do whatever God asked him to do. As we have seen David had his faults, but God knew his heart. He knew that David loved Him and would do whatever He asked him to do.

We should live as holy a life as we can and we can live a very holy life with the Holy Spirit's help. We should read and mediate on God's word. We should be people of prayer, praying without ceasing. Yet if we really want to be men and women after God's own heart, we need to start doing what He asks us to do. It is not always easy, it is not always fun and it is often without human reward or recognition, but who do we serve, man or God? Who do we want to please, man or God? Who do we want to think highly of us, man or God?

There are many places in Scripture where God shows us that He wants to use us. I will just quote one because I think it says it all:

(Ezekiel 22:30-31 NIV) [30] "I looked for a man among them who would build up the wall and stand before me in the gap on behalf of the land so I would not have to destroy it, but I found none. [31] So I will pour out my wrath on them and consume them with my fiery anger, bringing down on their own heads all they have done, declares the Sovereign LORD."

I thought about just quoting the first verse, but without the second you don't get the full effect of what God is saying. Are we willing to be men and women after God's own heart? There is a price to pay but heavenly rewards to gain. Oh how I long to hear Him say that I am a man after His own heart. I pray that you too want that title.